Recover almost always advocates for marriage and to save relationships
wherever possible, but not at any cost. I believe that people have a
right to reach out for their own happiness. Sometimes that means
recognizing you have done all you can and only by leaving the
relationship will you find the happiness you are seeking. Children can
also benefit greatly when their parents are happier and treat each
other with respect and love and sometimes this can only become reality
after the relationship ends. We can also help you face the reality that
is separation and divorce if that is the path you choose.
Rocky relationships run a wide gamut, anywhere from needing to make
some improvements in what is basically a sound relationship to being on
the path to divorce. Wherever you are in your relationship with each
other our objective is to support you both.
Interactions throughout your life have moulded the way you deal with
emotional and physical intimacy. I talk about allowing each other to
be vulnerable and trusting, and how to share your thoughts, feelings,
beliefs, and physical connections with each other without fear. Many
therapies focus on the individual and attempt to solve the problems
within a relationship by only addressing the issues of the individual.
At Relationship Recover we look at the relationship, at the couple and
at the interactions between you. During your two day relationship
retreat it may be the first time that you have ever spoken openly or
explained freely about how you feel about your relationship, about each
other and about your hopes for the future.